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Welcome to The Gay Love Coach Forum here at! I am Brian Rzepczynski, MSW, a licensed relationship coach from The Gay Love Coach: Man 4 Man Coaching Services ( and I thank you for letting me be a part of your community.

The mission behind this forum is to create a safe place and interactive community to discuss issues surrounding gay dating and relationships.

Resolutions For Gay Couples

"New Year's Resolutions For Gay Couples"
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach

Probably the number one question I get asked most often by gay couples is, unsurprisingly, “How do I make my relationship better?” So, in line with the holiday and beginning of a New Year, I thought I’d write a short blurb that lists some possible action steps you might take to improve your partnership in the coming year.

Dating Success Tips

"11 Dating Success Tips for Single Gay Men"
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach

One of the developmental tasks of all adolescents is to establish productive relationships with their peer group and to understand and manage their sexuality. Dating provides fertile training ground for these teens for learning about themselves and how to establish and maintain healthy intimate relationships as they continue to mature and grow.

Relationship Success Tips

"8 Relationship Success Tips For Coupled Gay Men"
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach

As gay men, you've struggled through and endured all the challenges inherent in finding true love with another man in this homophobic society, but you did it! You found your Mr. Right! So now what?!

Not only did we as gay men not receive any education or guidance in how to date another man, but we certainly didn't get the training manual on how to sustain a healthy, intimate partnership with him once we found our ideal guy and decided to form a commitment with him.

Why Am I Still Single?

"Why Am I Still Single? A Gay Man's Question"
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach

I’m so fed up with being a “nice guy” and getting nowhere for it. I continue to be perplexed by my situation and want to understand better why others act the way they do, what I am doing wrong, and what things I can do to improve myself. I’m not perfect and don’t pretend to be. I’m not a model, but I’m often told by people that I’m “hot” and how nice and sweet I am. I am passionate and good in bed and believe I have a good personality and sense of humor.

A Gay Lovers' Quarrel

“A Gay Lover’s Quarrel: Joe & Paul Talk It Out”
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach

Paul threw open the door to the apartment in a rage and stormed inside, Joe hot on his tail. “God, you are being such a drama queen! It’s no big deal! You’re reading way too much into this!” cried Joe as he cornered his partner in the bedroom. Paul swung around to face him, reeling with anger as his heart pounded ferociously against his chest and his hard, shallow breathing neared hyperventilation. “No big deal?! Gee, thanks for caring about how I feel!

Coping With Rejection

“Rejection Sucks! A Gay Guy’s Primer On Dealing With It”
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach


“Well, it was really nice meeting you, bud, but I don’t really think we’re a match. Good luck to you though!” –or- “Yeah, it was fun! I’ll call you!” –and then the call never comes.

Sound familiar? We’ve all been there at one time or another. You know, that stabbing feeling of being unwanted that’s so hard to shake when it strikes. Yep—rejection!

Poll on moving dilemma

Question: Your partner has been offered the job of a lifetime and he wants to take it. The problem is that it requires moving to the other side of the country. What would you do?

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Taming The Drama Queen Within

“Taming The Drama Queen Within”
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach


Question: My boyfriend had enough of me being a “drama queen” as he called me and then ended our relationship. I didn’t get what he meant by that. I was only trying to express my feelings and communicate my thoughts. Now he calls me a “big drama queen” in front of his friends and I feel humiliated.

Secrets of Successful Gay Daters

“Top 10 Secrets of Successful Gay Daters”
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach


Dating can be like a roller coaster ride sometimes with its fun highs and frustrating lows. Ever wonder why some guys have more luck with the dating game than others? Ever contemplate what it takes to become more successful with men? Well, that’s a tricky business and there’s no scientific formula that will yield those positive results. I believe dating is partly luck and LOTS of preparation.

This article will list ten characteristics common to the profile of a successful gay dater.